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Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages.
This book is the culmination of his life’s work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
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Customers say
Customers find the book’s marriage advice useful and applicable. They describe it as a good read with easy-to-understand principles. The practical questionnaires and exercises help them identify issues and positives in their marriage. Readers appreciate the interactive activities that help them learn about themselves and their partners. Overall, they consider it a great purchase and worth the cost.
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Kamberly V –
Amazing book for anyone interested in marriage and long relationships
Wow! Absolutely loved this book I must say.
When I got this book, I wasnt sure Id love it. I know many people recommended it but after reading the negative reviews I was a tiny bit hesitant. But I am so GLAD I bit the bullet.
I recommend this for anyone interested in having a long lasting relationship and many years of a beautiful marriage, either one you are currently in or one you want in the future. These truly do seem the keys to make most marriages last for sure. Even the ways conflict is handled is EXACTLY what I been asking for and EXACTLY what I wanted to see. This is the way conflict should be handled.
Another pro: the book exercises are very helpful. After reading the questions and surveys I found them extremely helpful in identifying the core issues or positives in a marriage. People don’t realize you are A TEAM when you are married. Its YOU 2 first, and this book preaches that.
Also the 7 principles themselves I found to be very true and reading the studies as examples were quite helpful. I also appreciate how the book provides practical examples and tips on HOW to bring up certain topics, what to say, what to do in certain marital situations.
The only complaint I have about this book is it doesnt seem to go into too much when to truly call it quits in a marriage. I absolutely agree that in most cases people call it quits far too early and people end what could have been such a beautiful thing for silly reasons that can be resolved or learn to co-exist peacefully, but I will say in some fairly rare situations there are times where a marriage simply wont work. I wish the book delved into that a bit more of what are the signs that your marriage really needs to end. But I would say that is a fairly rare case and again MOST of the time it can be improved with many of the exercises and points made in the book
My other gripe is that the pages are so thin that it doesnt withstand the wrath of my highlighter! I wish it was a tiny bit thicker because I have to be very gentle with how I highlight so it doesnt bleed through… and trust me, I highlighted A TON in this book.
So helpful
Madz –
A Compassionate Guide to Strengthening Relationships – âSeven Principles for Making Marriage Workâ
Dr. John Gottmanâs book âSeven Principles for Making Marriage Workâ is an insightful and invaluable guide that provides a beacon of hope and practical advice for couples navigating the complexities of marriage.
This book delves deep into the core principles that foster strong and lasting relationships. Dr. Gottman draws upon his extensive research and clinical experience to outline actionable strategies, allowing readers to understand the dynamics within their relationship and cultivate a deeper connection with their partner.
What sets this book apart is its empathetic approach. Dr. Gottman addresses common relationship pitfalls with sensitivity, offering guidance without judgment. His emphasis on communication, emotional intelligence, and understanding the dynamics of conflict resolution provides a roadmap for couples seeking to improve their relationship dynamics.
Each principle outlined in the book is supported by real-life examples and exercises, making it accessible and relatable. The practical nature of the advice allows couples to implement these principles in their daily lives, fostering a more profound sense of understanding and intimacy.
Moreover, the book doesnât just focus on problem-solving; it also highlights the importance of fostering positive interactions and building a foundation of trust and respect. Dr. Gottmanâs emphasis on celebrating love and cherishing the bond between partners resonates throughout the book, inspiring hope and motivation for couples facing challenges.
One of the most compelling aspects of âSeven Principles for Making Marriage Workâ is its universal applicability. Regardless of the stage of your relationship, whether youâre newlyweds or have been together for years, the wisdom imparted in this book offers something valuable for everyone.
In conclusion, this book is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship. Dr. Gottmanâs expertise, compassionate approach, and actionable advice make âSeven Principles for Making Marriage Workâ an essential read for anyone invested in cultivating a thriving and enduring partnership.
Charles0000 –
overall great book for marriage
I believe that this book has many great ideas and applications surrounding marriage. I especially love the activities and questions that couples can engage in together.
Brooke B. –
I bought 5 copies to give to my friends. This book is the most important book to read if you want to be in a successful relationship, or revive yours, or just learn from your past mistakes. I can’t recommend highly enough. Science backed. Tried and tested. The Authors are the foremost experts (he and his wife).
Andrea –
the book is amazing and if you are not married to a pathological liar and covert narc, i am sure it can even help couples…easy read and excellent exercises
Don’t waste your money, not enough power, charging system got spoilt on the first time use , doesn’t remove all the juice from the fruit –
Good
Negar –
Nice and useful
James Cherrytree –
Life-changing